After reading a friend’s sharing note from heart, she suddenly wanted to write down, wanted to write about so many things …. Though, she didn’t know where to start….
Maybe…just wants to say something like this … No one can thoroughly understand a person (including that person him/herself, probably). However, we seem to always look at others with our subjective, prejudiced eyes, and then, easily to judge them wrongly, misleadingly, or to jump to absolute misunderstanding conclusion.
Sincerely, she herself can proudly say that she has never misunderstood anyone for a long time, never judged anyone instantly. It was not that she had such a way of thinking coming from the middle of nowhere. The truth is, she had learnt such perspective from her own painful experience: even though she often goes out of her way to do many things in the favor of others (with her enthusiasm and from the bottom of her heart, unconditionally), nevertheless, many of those others had formed quite many misconceptions about her doings, or misjudged her will awfully, sometimes even had ridiculous prejudice against her, making no sense.
She is definitely not a saint. Thus, of course, she once had felt so annoy, frustrated, resentful about those others’ lack of understanding and compassion. However, very fortunately, she always tries to meditate and contemplate her own’s being, always finding ways to give reasons or to make excuses for those others. It’s not that she’s high-minded, magnanimous or so; it’s simply just an effective way for her to overcome her negative emotions, to keep holding her head up high, to practice her courage and patience, to vigorously move on and accomplish her goals….
Maybe…that’s all ! *_*
